Docstrings for `conj!` and `assoc!` should suggest using the return value; effect not always in-place

The docstrings of both `assoc!` and `conj!` say "Returns coll.", possibly suggesting the transient edit happens (always) in-place, `coll` being the first argument. However, this is not the case and the returned collection should always be the one that's used.

Approach: Replace "Returns coll." with "Returns an updated collection." in `conj!`, `assoc!`, `pop!` docstrings.

Patch: CLJ-1385-reword-docstrings-on-transient-update-funct-2.patch

Screened by: Alex Miller